Stephen R. Decker

Stephen R. Decker ("Steve"), age 78, of Stillwater, formerly of White Bear Lake, died on October 10, 2026. He admirably and humbly battled Parkinson's disease for over twenty years.

A respected and dedicated educator, Mr. Decker elevated the social studies experience of thousands of students in the White Bear Lake school district. His passions he shared with his family and friends included baseball, history, rock and roll, and muscle cars. Steve was a gentleman in all respects and handled everything he encountered with an even keel and grace. His impact knows no bounds and he will forever be remembered with fondness.

He is survived by his 50 year life companion, wife, Bonnie; sons, Aaron (Julie) and Mitch (Jennifer); grandsons, Wes and Wrigley, brother Jack (Marlene); sister-in-law, Carol Stabenow; and chosen sister, Nancy Haugen; along with nieces and nephews, Gina (Dustin) Brown, Alex (Heather) Decker and Matt and Nate Stabenow.

Preceded in death by his father, Bob; and mother, Bonnie; father and mother-in-law, Myron and Bev Stabenow; and brother-in-law, Mark Stabenow, along with many beloved pets including Jennifer, Dutches, Rose, Lloyd, Betty, Margaret, Elaine, and Louanne.

Special thanks to those who dedicated themselves to providing comfort throughout the end of his journey; Mary, Caroline, and Nancy.

A Celebration of Life will be held Monday, October 26, 2026 3:00-6:00 P.M. at Bradshaw Celebration of Life Center, 2800 Curve Crest Boulevard, Stillwater.

In lieu of flowers, donations of school supplies to benefit local students will be kindly accepted. Additionally, memorial donations directed to the Angel Fund benefiting White Bear Lake Area Schools will be gladly appreciated.